Tuesday, August 7, 2012

why is it that people pursuing a romantic relationship with someone else tend to be so afraid of the word ‘friend’

like if you’re going to love someone deeply and even perhaps romantically and they want to also be your friend at least carefully consider it. i’m completely aware that plenty of people work differently and feel most comfortable keeping friendships and romances┬áseparate┬ábut at least respect someones desire to be your friend if that’s what they want it doesn’t necessarily mean you’re going to be friendzoned eventually its just that intimacy often requires comradeship